Friday, September 18, 2009

the events of the past 15 hours have left me shocked, disconnected, and disillusioned at best.

a little after midnight last night, my mom got a call. when the phone rings in the middle of the night, it's usually never a good sign.

on the other end of the line was my cousin saying that my mom's 44 yr old "baby" brother was dead. we have no idea what happened.

rewinding... on monday he went in for back surgery. the doctors went in through his stomach, removing all of his vital organs during the operation. the surgery went fine...

on tuesday, he started passing blood and his blood pressure dropped. the doctors were able to stabilize him and he seemed ok. they sent him home on wednesday.

after he had been sleeping for 10 hours yesterday, his girlfriend went in to check on him. he was gasping for air. a little while later he died. it was so sudden.

this is the 5th death for our family in the past year. 4 of them being on my mom's side of the family.

please pray for her. she needs lots of grace and strength... and for Jesus to do only what He can do.


6 comments:

Karyn said...

Amy, I am so sorry! I am praying for your family right now... know that you are loved.

Amy Reece Spahr said...

thank you so much, karyn

Anonymous said...

Oh man!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't believe it. He was so young. I am so sorry.

Teresa

reasons... said...

Amy, I am praying for you and your mom especially. Jesus will come and do what only he can do.
I am thinking and praying for you tomorrow as well!!!!
Sending you love, Sarah

Modern Mighty Man said...

I just lifted up a prayer for you guys.

Katherine said...

wow, Amy. Your family has been through so much this year. i pray for God's strength and hope.

love you.